A
young man's marital journey is about to make a record for being one of
the shortest after the groom and bride had a misunderstanding.
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In this 21st century of enlightenment, most marriages haven't been
lasting more than a short play. This starts from the strength of highly
publicized celebrity marriages to that of normal members of the society.
An embattled husband whose marriage is just a week old has open up
on their stumbling blocks as they could be heading to court for a
divorce if it's not properly managed. The story was published on a
popular online forum in Nigeria and it is currently attracting diverse
comments.
Read his story below:
Dear members...I am of the type that says NO to bringing marital
shortcomings to the social media but I just realized why others do so.
I formerly got married on Tuesday 18th April but we are already
headed for a bitter divorce. To cut the story short, the whole issue
started at the ground of our traditional marriage (Igba Nkwu).
On arriving her dad's compound, I was stunned to realize her mother
didn't make the provisions of which I paid her for. The DJ wasn't on
ground, the canopies were just 3 and looking dirty, the chairs were not
up to half of what i paid for. There was no light, no microphone, no
decorations, the few food cooked were not served to guest and I was
devastated.
Out of anger and disappointment, I started lashing out at my wife
and she broke down in tears begging me for forgiveness. We managed to
forge ahead till the the ceremony ended and we headed for my house.
As our tradition demands, the newly married bride sees off her 'Aso
Ebis' and return in the evening same day to welcome visitors. But alas,
my wife went and never came back till Friday evening.
I queried her on her where-about only for her reply in a harsh manner saying "where do you expect me to be", "don't make me angry"
God!! I couldn't believe it as it made me more mad in anger so I asked
her to return to wherever she's coming from and leave our son behind
(yes we already had a year and 10 months old son). I actually made this
decision to save face else how do I clarify the absence of my wife and
son to visitors and well-wishers trooping in to see them?
She hurriedly dashed into the room and picked her phone and stormed
out of the house. Now her mother is accusing me of taking her
daughter's son from her and stripping her of her belongings.
Now my wife is saying she's no longer interested in the marriage
likewise her people (her father is late). I am still fuming with anger
that I am at loss of what to do. I am not prepared to raise my son alone
neither do I want him to be raised by her mother alone.
Should I initiate a peace move and apologize to her or should I
move on with life.....I am seriously confused and fuming with anger that
I was shortchanged and offended and still expected to offer apologies.
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