“I have since stepped into my truth” – Nigerian lesbian, Pamela Adie set to wed her partner

 
Nigerian lesbian and LGBT activist LGBT, Awhobiwom Pamela Adie who is set to wed her partner soon, has taken to social media to share a throw back photo taken 9 years ago.
The Cross River State-born activist who was once married to a man, but shocked her family and friends after she declared that she’s a lesbian, wrote;

“This was taken 9 years ago while on vacation in Vancouver, Canada.
I was “dating” this very nice guy who loved me and wanted a future with me. He talked about kids, life with me, the car he would buy for me, how we’d travel the world, and live happily ever after.
Funny thing is, I never disrupted his dream. I was trying so hard to buy into his narrative of how good we were together. I wanted to see his dream of us together as a happy family but I just couldn’t.
He soon noticed that I didn’t share his aspirations when I started to withdraw.
He’s a great guy. Now married to a lovely woman and they have beautiful kids. And we’re still good friends.
As it was with all the men I tried to date, it was never them.
It was always me living in denial and trying so hard to be straight.
I am no longer about that life
I have since stepped into my truth.”