A 28-year-old nurse has opened up about a troubling experience in her relationship, seeking honest advice on how to handle a situation that has left her emotionally drained.
According to her account, she has been dating her boyfriend for about 10 months. While she describes him as generally loving and faithful, she says a recurring issue has become impossible to ignore.
Each time she visits his house, she finds herself taking full responsibility for domestic chores. From washing and ironing his clothes to deep-cleaning the house, cooking meals, and washing dishes, she says she does it all before heading back to her own home. However, the problem doesn’t end there.
She alleges that whenever she misses even the smallest task, her boyfriend reacts harshly. In her words, he takes photos of whatever she forgot — even something as minor as a spoon — and sends the images to her along with insulting messages meant to shame her.
She recounted a recent incident that pushed her to the edge. She arrived at his house around 8 a.m., completed her usual routine of cleaning, cooking, and washing dishes, and they ate together. Afterward, he asked her to step out to buy him some beer. When she returned, she was in a hurry to get to her parents’ house to attend to other responsibilities and mistakenly left one spoon unwashed in the sink.
She said she got home around noon and tried calling him seven times just to let him know she arrived safely. All her calls were ignored. She also sent several messages throughout the day, even though she noticed he was online, but received no response.
Later that evening, around 5 minutes to 6 p.m., he finally replied — not with concern, but with two photos highlighting what she had “failed” to do. Alongside the images, he reportedly wrote: “What kind of lady are you? How can you forget to clean the spoon?” He also told her she needed to “work on herself” over the single spoon.
She says this pattern has been ongoing throughout their relationship. Her phone, according to her, is filled with photos he has sent over the past 10 months, documenting every minor mistake she has made while cleaning his house.
Now emotionally worn out, she admits she no longer knows how to cope with his attitude or whether it can even change.
“I’m honestly tired,” she said. “This happens every single time. I don’t know how to handle this anymore, or if I can even change it. I really wish he would change this annoying attitude.”
She is now asking for advice from the public:
What should I do? How do you handle a man who behaves like this?
Written by Sola Ogunbola
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